When you’re shopping for groceries with your child, what do you do when he, or she, screams for you to buy something like candy? Do you succumb to her wailing cries or do you stand up and “be the parent?”

According to renowned child and family therapist Kersty Franklin, choosing the former is an indication of reacting to a situation, instead of being proactive about it. Today’s generation of children expect to receive most of what they ask for because parents now give in to their whims, she says.

Back in the day, this problem was usually limited to children ages 8 and below, now it’s up to 18, she adds.

While you might expect Franklin to tell you to discipline your child more effectively, she actually offers smarter and more practical advice.

She points out that parents must teach their kids how to think and solve problems they run into. Parents need to provide expectations for certain behavior, something that’s different from simply imposing one’s will as a parent. Franklin says that parents and children need to understand how to solve problems collaboratively, so that they know how to settle arguments amicably.

Kersty Franklin will be talking more about these points in a fundraising presentation titled, “Creating the Parent I’d Like to Be,” to be held on the 10^th of November, 7 in the evening, at the Dufferin Child and Family Services building along 655 Riddell Rd. here in Orangeville.

Admission is $15.00, with proceeds of the event going to the Dufferin Parent Support Network.

Here’s a quick look at some of the events taking place in Orangeville this month.

Happening until the 7^th of November, the Alton Mill will be hosting “Out on a Limb,” a show that features 6 artists celebrating the beauty of trees through paintings, photographs, ceramics, sculpture and other media. Log-on to www.altonmill.ca for more information on the event.

Theatre Orangeville’s very own production, “Skin Flick,” is running from the 14^th until the 31^st of October. The play tells the story of a down-on-their-luck couple struggling to pay the bills. In their desperation, they turn to the idea of making a skin flick. This funny yet endearing comedy has received great reviews, so if you’re looking for some good old belly laughs, check it out. Visit www.theatreorangeville.ca for more details.

From the 16^th to the 17^th of October, the Orangeville Art Group will be hosting its 41st annual Fall Show and Sale, to be held at the Orangeville fairgrounds from 10 in the morning to the 5 in the afternoon on both days. Artists from the Group will be at the event to talk and exchange ideas with visitors. Log-on to www.orangevilleartgroup.ca for more on the event.

Herbal One Weight Management in Orangeville will be holding an Open House Oct 12 – 16th.

Stop in for a free complimentary consultation of how you can lose weight and best of all keep it off!

Location:
75 Alder St.,
Orangeville, ON
Phone: 519-941-0022